During the talk, the speaker introduced himself and tells us a bit of his background on how he started his career in the banking sector before he decided to follow his passion to become a teacher. This award winning teacher pursued his further education in University Malaya and graduated with MEd TESL. After being in the education sector for almost eight years he decided to yet again pursue a different interest. He joined an American organisation dealing with universities and multinational companies in Malaysia and abroad. He also worked in the recruitment environment for almost 10 years in his career.Then he currently a Senior Lecturer at The Faculty of Education and Languages, Open University Malaysia. Now, he is working in education engineering, where he designs and builds online learning tools for the university.
The speaker then talks about personality profiling: learning about youself. He then gave us a questionaire to fill up to find our characters such as golds, greens, oranges and blues. In order for us to fill up the questionaire, the speaker shows the list of attributes, values and personalities and encourage us to fill up the two word clusters. After we complete our questionaire, we need to calculate the total score for each question.
From the questionnaire, my colour is gold and a little bit of blue. I feel the colour gold really tells me the person i am, except i don't think im right all the time, that's is not me.
The characteristics of gold are punctual and dependable, respect rules, like routine and orderliness, have a strong sense of right and wrong, are very loyal and don't like a lot of change in their routine. The moment when the speaker mention about some of these characteristics, i turn my head to flora, hahaha. Because she has these qualities in her when working with her in the group assignments especially the part on having strong sense of right and wrong. She said " Really, I have those?." She is so funny.
However, the characteristics of blue in a person are social and work best in group settings, are imaginative, are senstive to critique, like to be valued and reassured, and enjoy being included in decisions. All of these characteristics really tells me the person i am today.
Other colours like green really suits How, because he is logical, problem solver and work best independently and the colour orange really suits Kathryn because she is competitive, are 'hands on' type, and of course can handle many tasks at one time.
It is so interesting that we could identify the colour and the characteristics that explains our personal attributes.
Later on, the speaker talk about how to become a person who has self-confidence:
1. Groom yourself, shower, and for boys, they need to shave.
2. Properly dress
3. Kill negative thoughts(aware of your self-talk).
4. Get to know yourself
5. Get prepared
6. Learn from others
The speaker also talk about putting biz card in holder. He talks about the values of people from different countries. He gave an example of a country which is Japan, and he tells us that the people of Japan do not scribble on the empty space give according to the person's rank, in this case the senior. Then, take time to read and memorise detail. He also talk about the handshake. When we are introducing ourselves to other people or organisations. We need to have warm handshake, and extend your hand slit and also lock our eyes( but caution: not more than 3 sec).
Etiquette on the table.
Etiquette on the table is when we are invited to a dinner party by our boss or manager in the company/ organisation. It is important that we dressed formally to dinner and not to forget our table manners.
I learnt a lot of things such as how to hold the napkin, and put it gently on our lap. When we need to leave the dinner table, we have to put on the chair, fold the napkin and put in on the left side of the plate. I also learnt that when your collegues or boss want only pepper, we still have to give salt as well.
I also learnt how to dress well and to have a hair that matches with our face cut.
Men
Women
Mine is a heart shaped face
What's more interesting about this talk, is when he shows us pictures of different people, who has different face cut. He gave us a little bit of advice that we should have a hair that suits our shape of the face. If you have a heart shaped face, you need to give short curls for your hair and make it wavy.
This has been a wonderful experience for me, where i learnt about personalities, how to dress smartly to work, etiquette on the table and when meeting people. Also, finding the right hair that mathches with your face cut.
With that, I end my writing here.
Sonia